I don’t know what to do! She wants to wear a black dress and have black roses! With everything else being white! No color! She’s not gothic, I don’t think!
I’m supposed to be the maid of honor and wear white?!
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Wow..how funny..I am thinking about the same thing. Just wear what she ask of you I think it will be fantastic and that most people just don’t have any imagination because they are all programmed robots!! Be unique and enjoy the moment! You are beautiful!!
Just get over it. Is it really that bad to wear a black wedding dress?
The groom usually wears a black tux and no one says anything about that. I am actually excited to hear about another bride who dares to be herself
If you think that’s too much, you probably would be shocked by the awesomeness on http://www.offbeatbride.com and the many colors and clothing brides and grooms wear.
My neice did that, and her wedding was one of the best that I have ever been to. It was different, but very nice. Weddings are not the same as they were 50 years ago. Go with the flow and have fun.
If she’s not gothic, is there any other reason she wants this?
Most likely, she’s going to regret it later. She has to remember that she’s going to have these pictures for the rest of her life. Even Princess Diana was once quoted as saying she regretted her wedding gown and that she should have opted for something more classic and streamlined.
I would ask her what made her make this decision, and just remind her of everything I said above. Some brides THINK they want an uber trendy wedding, and then will back off that idea because they know it will look so tacky and outdated years down the the line, and that’s not how they want to remember that day.
But if for some reason, this is what she wants, you’re just going to have to go with it and put a smile on your face. It sucks, but aside from talking to her about it, there’s nothing else you can do.
i think you should ask her what the deal is…maybe she just wants to try something new or maybe she’s just looking for attention…something is on her mind. one way or another.
it’s probably nothing.
It’s her day, let her live on the edge, we get so caught up on what tradition has been and society think. WHY not have opposite colors, why not do something different. there is nothing wrong with it. Live it up and try something new. IT will be memorable and she may be a trend setter in your group of friends and may start a reverse wedding color revolution. HEHE
Dear Taminiri. I just you also have the “Men in White” standing by to take the bride out on a stretcher as she decompensates during this ceremony. She sounds a bit “off balanced” to me, and this may just push her over the edge.
I have no idea, toots, your best bet is to ask “Morticia” what color you should wear.
Its her big day. I don’t understand why you are filping out over this? Maybe she fell in love with this dress. She is going for something everyone will remember. Kodos to her. Just try to be understanding to her. Just wear the white. and be happy.
I know the idea doesn’t sound fun to you, but this is her day. Let her have fun with it!
What about it? It’s her day, not yours, so if this is how she and her fiance want to remember their wedding, they are entitled to that.
If you’re really upset by the theme of her wedding, then step down from the MOH position – the Bride needs someone to support and help her in planning the wedding, not someone who posts what an awful idea her theme is to forums on the Internet.
Yes. If her wedding is a reversed black and white wedding, it means that she wears black, her fiance and the guys wear white tuxes with black shirts and white ties, and the bridesmaids probably all wear white (Or maybe some kind of patterned black and white dresses, like a stripes or a paisley print).
I don’t understand why this is a question. I’m sure that she’ll tell you exactly what you’re supposed to wear, etc. You just have to follow her instructions. Are you just upset at it and looking for people to tell you that your BFF is crazy and that you should try to talk her out of it? It’s really no big deal. I’d just say, “I love ya and I’ll help you make your dream wedding awesome.”
Think of it this way — at most weddings, it’s impossible to re-use the bridesmaid dress….in this case, (if you aren’t married yet) you can wear the white bridesmaid dress as your own wedding dress some day!
I don’t see what the big deal is… The black roses okay maybe a bit much but hey it’s her day. I once attended a wedding where the bride wore a hot pink wedding gown with white roses and the bridesmaids had white gowns with hot pink roses…That was very different but looked amazing and she to this day has no regrets.
I think that is cool! It’s her wedding and if she likes it that is all that matters. Some women don’t want to wear white, especially if not virginal like in the old days. Cool.
it’s her wedding. if you don’t want to wear white then decline.
sarah jessica parker wore black at her wedding, and she said she regretted it. i’m all for unconventional, but it seems like something she’ll regret. maybe give it a little time, and maybe she’ll change her mind. otherwise there’s nothing really you can do about it. maybe suggest she wear a different color or a dress with black accents or black gloves if she wants unconventional.
She has terrible fashion sense, you should talk her out of it.