I’m sad all the time because i have no good friends. The group of people i hang out with are nice but they’re all best friends and i just kind of tag along. And everyone else in my school are snobs. Last year I was in the “popular” group but they started ignoring me so i stood up for myself and ended up with these two girls who seemed really nice but it happend again and now i have no really good best friends. Im afraid this will happen again and i hate everyone in my school. All anyone cares about is looks, and although many people tell me im beautiful no one still wants to be friends with me. I dont care about looks of other people friends wise but everyone else does and no one wants to be friends. Im very nice but the problem is that either the people are snobs or they already have a best friend and wont let anyone in and I dont want to be friends with them. What should I do?
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I’m like you. I’m shy, so I don’t have that many real best friends. And most of the time I tag along. At my school looks are a pretty big part, too. With some people there, it’s like if your not preppy, they don’t like you at all. I’m glad you stood up for yourself. To try and find friends maybe you should talk 2 people that you never met before or noticed. Just look around. If there’s nobody at your school then try camps, clubs, or get a pen pal!
And while your at it stick with your two friends you have right now. If you don’t want to just tag along, then YOU come up with the ideas and take charge.
Hope that helped!
There are a couple of books that I found helpful:
The Friendship Factor by Alan Loy Mcginnis
and Safe People by Cloud & Townsend (Christian).
If they are too serious for you, try looking in the teen self-help books for some tips on finding and keeping friends. There are a lot of good books out there.
Well just find new friends true friends always come first always remember that u hear? Just start talking to them